What is the column data type for the date columns? If the data type is one of the date/time data types - then changing the display in SSMS is a matter of changing your workstations regional settings.
As for the dollar amounts - I believe those can also be adjusted based on regional settings.
If the goal is for exporting the data, then you could use CAST/CONVERT and shudder FORMAT (which is a performance killer so not recommended to use unless absolutely necessary).